Connector pin removal woes

Replacing Aerostruder print head and this how-to is easy to follow:

However, “Using the pin removal tool…”
(I don’t have this tool.)
Can someone point me to the specific pin removal tool OR
the aerostruder molex connector part number so I can identify which version to use on this connector?
The instructions link to:
But numerous tools are listed.
More details on how to use “some sort of tool with a small point”?



made two “probes” out of .03" music wire (hammered flat, filed, rounded ends, removed burrs):

pliers used to poke around until felt probe slip in a short bit (one side of pin at a time) as shown in video.

A pick or sharp object usually works to push the pins/latches on the connectors…

I use upholstery pins.